Remember the first time you were taught the logic of using full stops, commas, semi colons, hyphens, exclamation mark etc etc !!!
Such a cumbersome task it seemed to culminate the set of lines with these punctuation marks . Probably for me, that age was too tender to differentiate between which line urged for a closure and which was to be put on hold. 😀 At least i could never expertise in this domain.
This childhood mess has managed to persist in my life even at present. And so i resorted to adopt the escape route by expressing all those end-of-line emotions by a sole method of 3 DOTS … And tell you what, this is something i have been doing since long without even being aware of it.
Thanks to someone who has got exemplary observation skills because of whom i realised this peculiar habit of mine.
Now next question arises…. Why ??
Why do i always tend to end the sentences with these 3 DOTS !!!
Well that demanded a hell lot of scrutiny and self analysis to come to a list of possible reasons. Of course the common one was to exert some importance after the phrase so as to attract more than usual attention towards it. But now when i applied my so called “psychological brainstorming skills”, i came out with many more.
- Strange i know, but full stop seems like the end of things to me, end of thoughts, of creativity, of opportunities etc etc . There is so much to express, to say, to deliver but this full stop brings cessation of my not-so-often active working of mind.
- Secondly, no matter how much efforts and words I put up to express myself , “kuch na kuch reh hi jata hai” , 3 dots signifies those unsaid words to me.
- And the recent reason i discovered and invented at the same time was … to vocalize thousands of words without actually vocalizing it 😉
Sounds a great idea !! at least to some “muddle head” people like to me who never cease to think but find it really a gruelling task juggling with the umpteen no. of words to find the apt ones 😉
But also , may be absurd to those who either are quite comfortable expressing or find it futile to express the thoughts bottled up inside.
Well, if you lie in former zone, I am sure your life is worth taking record of. But by chance, you stand in the latter sphere… with no offense, you are not taking life seriously !!
Or being more precise, you are taking it toooooo seriously.
Someone has said so aptly… 🙂
“Hopes and wishes for all that delights will sour in the midst of action not taken and words unsaid”
Ever thought this way that the almighty has bestowed upon you the profound capabilities to communicate through gestures or conduct or words. Don’t take this blessing for granted by keeping those feelings inside that may bring an immense difference to the life of people who belong to you. Often the fear of “being vulnerable” or “doing it wrong” also brings with it endless potential for more love, forgiveness and connection that really can be miraculous.
What you didn’t say will remain with you forever throughout the course of your life. Neither it can bring the closure to the matters that need to end nor can begin the story of which you could be the main protagonist but rather chose to put a full stop before it could actually start.
So dear readers, listen to the deep existing desires of yours… to understand and even more than that… to be understood and open up the horizons of the endless words that still stay suspended in the air waiting to be caught and roll out of your tongue to reach out to someone who deserve to hear them.
Lets not leave any scope of this ⇓ in your hard earned as well as “dreamt of ” relationships.
And if some words are too reticent to come out or are left behind in the race , adopt my way … 3 DOTS 😉 seems ambiguous but it really works provided the receiving side is capable of perceiving those unsaid words. Or for that matter choose any mode of expression because conveying whats lies inside is more important that how it comes out.
Lets make this a life a bit more lively by adding to it innumerable stories that you can frame everyday with your words, your gestures, and probably something of your own like my 3 Dots and fill your folder of memories with this lifetime treasure.
Last but the most important !!
… 😉 🙂
Keep decoding !!! 😀
And no blog can conclude without this gesture…
for bearing with my “muddle head” thoughts 😉 😀
Hope to meet you all here soon !! 🙂 🙂